want to share my wife - but how?




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peekaboobs
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Username: peekaboobs

Post Number: 2
Registered: 7-2010
Posted on Sunday, July 4, 2010 - 2:53 pm:   

I have been talking to my wife about having a MMF threesome for quite a while now - and I think she is finally up to the idea. What I don't know how to do is find the right person to help make this happen - and exactly how to set it up to make it happen? I think that in order for it to happen, it will need to be somewhat spontaneous (dinner, drinks, maybe some dancing) - but I am not sure how to get the ball rolling. Any advice for the novice swinger?
htwfelvr
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Username: htwfelvr

Post Number: 12
Registered: 7-2010
Posted on Sunday, July 4, 2010 - 4:12 pm:   

invite me i'll help you two figure it ot. e mail me with a pic
wifeshare
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Username: wifeshare

Post Number: 324
Registered: 6-2007


Posted on Sunday, July 4, 2010 - 8:26 pm:   

You can run an ad on the internet and lay out ALL your rules ahead of time. ie: you can suggest you meet over dinner and drinks and IF you all click only THEN will something else happen. If you are unsure at all - nothing needs to happen that night - you can set up a second time to get together. That would give either you or your wife the opportunity to talk about whether this is the right guy or not and change your minds if either of you are having second thoughts.

Of course if things go really well - why wait? LOL

Just be upfront and honest with the guy you pick. If he's pushy and not willing to accept your terms - he's the wrong guy.

Another option is to check out a Swinger's Club. They are a great place to meet like-minded people that will understand your feelings and concerns. Most people that go to Swinger's Clubs are not pushy and will let thinks proceed according to your comfort level.

Good luck and let us know how you make out.

Jim & Pam

P.S. If you want to email us with any additional questions or your wife wants to ask Pam anything - feel free to email us.
gavinandlynn
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Username: gavinandlynn

Post Number: 690
Registered: 1-2007


Posted on Tuesday, July 6, 2010 - 6:43 pm:   

Ask her to select someone. You might be surprised that she has someone in mind.
totesmagotes65
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Username: totesmagotes65

Post Number: 8
Registered: 7-2010
Posted on Wednesday, July 7, 2010 - 1:33 pm:   

I think she has plenty of other men in mind. I'm just not sure if they would be receptive to fucking their buddy's wife. I think it would make more sense to find a stranger - where we can go our separate ways after we are done.
eager2do2
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Username: eager2do2

Post Number: 61
Registered: 12-2006
Posted on Wednesday, July 7, 2010 - 3:15 pm:   

Are you looking to please her or get some cock for yourself? Both are good reasons.
totesmagotes65
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Username: totesmagotes65

Post Number: 11
Registered: 7-2010
Posted on Friday, July 9, 2010 - 4:19 pm:   

Don't want any cock for myself. I am 100% heterosexual. I just love the idea of either watching her fuck a couple of guys are another guy and me.
r_n_bfuncpl
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Username: r_n_bfuncpl

Post Number: 9
Registered: 10-2006
Posted on Friday, July 9, 2010 - 7:50 pm:   

So then you want a MFM not a MMF?
totesmagotes65
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Username: totesmagotes65

Post Number: 12
Registered: 7-2010
Posted on Saturday, July 10, 2010 - 8:31 am:   

nope. MMF. Two dicks - one girl!
cinn
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Username: cinn

Post Number: 215
Registered: 3-2010


Posted on Wednesday, July 21, 2010 - 3:53 pm:   

Both spellings mean there are two dicks one girl.

The placement of the 'F' between the 'M's signifies that the two men do not play with each other.

Important bit of communication in an ad.
I am the Girl, Sinsnaps is my husband.
bonxxxnie
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Username: bonxxxnie

Post Number: 5
Registered: 7-2010


Posted on Tuesday, July 27, 2010 - 7:58 pm:   

Kenny, My hubby & I are in a similar situation as yours. I sure wish you would email me and maybe we could exchange ideas. Bonnie yes2u@hotmail.com

CINN Thank you for this information.
cinn
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Username: cinn

Post Number: 240
Registered: 3-2010


Posted on Wednesday, July 28, 2010 - 4:43 pm:   

No problem, Bonnie. The center letter is the focus of the other two letter attention. That is why all the different spellings for what looks like the same thing.

At least that is how it was explained to me.
I am the Girl, Sinsnaps is my husband.

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