How do I change a blinkered puritan sexy
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| jon4hel
Poster Username: jon4hel Post Number: 1 Registered: 7-2010 |
This is a very serious issue where I have tried for years to get my wife to be more open about sex, nudity and sharing but she is so virgin white it is unreal!! We have many arguments about not feeling the need to feel free about sex and I seem to get nowhere with any discussion. I chat online with lots of interesting people male and female and not always about sex but I am called a "dirty perv" This may be right but not for the wrong reasons. Any ideas as to how I can get her to loosen-up would be greatly appreciated!! | ||
| tittietwister
Poster Username: tittietwister Post Number: 21 Registered: 5-2007 |
The way you describe her I think you are SOL. | ||
| bnob23
Poster Username: bnob23 Post Number: 32 Registered: 7-2010 |
Shes probably not going to change.It is very difficult to change anyone.You either accept it or move on. | ||
| 9simon9
Poster Username: 9simon9 Post Number: 18 Registered: 1-2009 |
If you haven't already done so, you might try gradually introducing her to the joys of sexual toys. After she becomes comfortable with those, you might try discussing each other's fantasies, starting with relatively harmless ones and going from there. You each might hopefully one day live out those fantasies. Good luck and remember to keep a stiff upper... :-) | ||
| gamblerman
Poster Username: gamblerman Post Number: 365 Registered: 1-2010  |
well im kinda there with you, in a way. my wife isn't into sharing or things like that, and she isn't really as open about sex as I am. But she understands that I am and doesn't stop me from being that way. however I respect her with her views of sex and her lifestyle. Whatever you do just don't get pushy with her it never works then you just end up fighting trust me i know lol. My wife and I have a good agreement though. She allows me certain entitlements and I respect her wishes to not be invovled in certain things that I enjoy being apart of . | ||
| jon4hel
Poster Username: jon4hel Post Number: 3 Registered: 7-2010 |
Can you explian SOL tittietwister?? bnob23 I am not prepared to move on so it may be accept as the only option And 9simon9 we have used toys for many years but whilst the satisfaction is hers, she does not open up as to what if any, fantasies she has?? Gamblerman To be involved in anything she does not agree with would be the end, and she says she does not agree with anything to do with sex apart from with her!!!! Seems there is an impasse which I will not be able to change!! | ||
| jon4hel
Poster Username: jon4hel Post Number: 4 Registered: 7-2010 |
By the way all!! I have been lucky to get her to let me take sex pix of varying degrees but now she has found out I trade them she has really gone further south so to speak!! | ||
| cinn
Poster Username: cinn Post Number: 272 Registered: 3-2010  |
She found out you trade sexy pix of her without her knowledge? You are lucky you are capable of typing still, dude. What trust you have spent years building with your wife is now blown. Good luck on getting her to open up more. I am the Girl, Sinsnaps is my husband. | ||
| lovespussy
Poster Username: lovespussy Post Number: 403 Registered: 9-2008 |
SOL= S*** Out of Luck. My experience is that no amount of coaxing will affect someone's sexual personality. If they're not open to being more free, only time may change them if they have personal initiative. |
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